Hey crew! We've had several friends and family ask for the story of Jaylee's name. So, we thought we'd share an email we sent out right after she was born. Enjoy!
We are honored to introduce to you our beloved daughter, given to us from our Most High, through the sacrifice of some truly beautiful people, Jaylee's birth parents. It will take us a life time to understand the love and sacrifice all mixed up in this treasure. Jaylee's life is truly a beautiful story.
Jaylee Ann Paige Graves
8lbs 20 1/4inches
Born at 2:45pm on Saturday, March 21st, 2009
The story of Jaylee's name:
Jaylee: Jason + Leah = Jaylee. Plus, it represents so many special men in her life > Jason and his dad's middle name is "Lee", my dad's middle name is "Jay" = Jaylee. Jaylee is a derivative of a name that means "Smiling". Jaylee's birth mom is a smiling soul and we know that Jaylee will be also.
Ann: Both of our mom's, Jaylee's grandmas names are "Ann". Although Jason's mom spells it "Anne".
Her first name is "Jaylee Ann".
Paige: Our beloved Paige will always be a part of our home. She and the birth father have given us a gift that cannot be repaid. Their sacrifice is our treasure. It doesn't seem fair that it has to work this way. Also, some friends from college said goodbye to their precious Cora Paige. Although we never met Cora, her story painstakingly reminds us that Jaylee (and Benson) is not ours - she belongs to the Lord. Each day we're given is a gift from the Lord.
And, lastly we'll leave you with a passage that has a whole new meaning with the addition of our daughter, Jaylee, and her birth story. Even if you know this passage, we encourage you to read through it with us here in celebration of Jaylee's life.
Psalm 139
1 O LORD, you have searched me
and you know me.
2 You know when I sit and when I rise;
you perceive my thoughts from afar.
3 You discern my going out and my lying down;
you are familiar with all my ways.
4 Before a word is on my tongue
you know it completely, O LORD.
5 You hem me in—behind and before;
you have laid your hand upon me.
6 Such knowledge is too wonderful for me,
too lofty for me to attain.
7 Where can I go from your Spirit?
Where can I flee from your presence?
8 If I go up to the heavens, you are there;
if I make my bed in the depths, you are there.
9 If I rise on the wings of the dawn,
if I settle on the far side of the sea,
10 even there your hand will guide me,
your right hand will hold me fast.
11 If I say, "Surely the darkness will hide me
and the light become night around me,"
12 even the darkness will not be dark to you;
the night will shine like the day,
for darkness is as light to you.
13 For you created my inmost being;
you knit me together in my mother's womb.
14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
your works are wonderful,
I know that full well.
15 My frame was not hidden from you
when I was made in the secret place.
When I was woven together in the depths of the earth,
16 your eyes saw my unformed body.
All the days ordained for me
were written in your book
before one of them came to be.
17 How precious to me are your thoughts, O God!
How vast is the sum of them!
18 Were I to count them,
they would outnumber the grains of sand.
When I awake,
I am still with you.